Thursday, January 7, 2010

And then there's me...

Hello to you all, ladies!

My name is Katie. You can find my blog at songofasunflower.blogspot.com

(The link on the side of this blog connects you to my teaching blog, so use this one above!)

I am 25, a schoolteacher, and a practicing Catholic. My faith became important to me at 15, when friends invited me to attend a Non-Denominational youth group. There, I became motivated to learn more about a Savior -- who loved me with a zealous love. The youth group was my launching pad, but shortly after beginning to attend regularly, I often received comments from both the youth group leaders and members that Catholics weren't Christians, and although I didn't know my Catholic upbringing well enough to refute that, it challenged me to find out more about the Catholic Church. Miraculously, later that year, the Catholic parish my family attended FINALLY got a youth minister and started a youth group when I was 16. I never really attended the Catholic youth group because I started working at 16, but I did have an incredible Confirmation experience -- a testament to the wonderful youth minister who led Confirmation, and I really became passionate about my faith at that point.

I'm excited about this book club, because, I find myself alone in my Catholic faith. I have many friends who are Protestant, and love that we share the same values, but really don't seem to meet many Catholics my age who are practicing their faith...and I think that's a shame!

Feminism is something, that, in my life, was felt but not heard. My mom exemplified old-fashioned, ladylike behavior and served her family as a stay-at-home wife and mother. But, there have always been expectations that were encouraged from the outside: mostly, that women should be self-sufficient financially and emotionally, and that all men suck. (Okay, maybe that last one is a stretch!) I've always blindly followed the directive that feminism was a valiant movement for the equal rights of women, but it has to be said that feminism has similarly corrupted the values of chivalry, respect, and honor towards women. I recently finished the book, Captivating, by John and Staci Eldredge, a book that suggested that the feminine soul has been neglected by the push for modern feminism. I think that Feminism is Not the Story of My Life will most likely compliment Captivating, and reveal new ways to grow toward the life God has called me to lead.

7 comments:

  1. I"m so glad 1) that you're youth group led you to a deeper love of Christ, and 2) that it led you to a deeper study of your Catholic faith. I have been where you are with mostly Protestant friends, especially when I was in college. While I love being around the different perspectives, there is also something great being able to be in a discussion with Catholics, too. Most of my group of friends now is Catholic, and I love the experience of coming from the same place as well. I'm really excited that you're going to be a part of the book club!

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  2. God really provides sometimes, doesn't he? So glad to hear about your good confirmation experience! And look at him providing you with many Catholic friends on here :) (I believe even those in the book club who are non-Catholic are at least Catholic-friendly.)

    "Felt but not heard" - I bet that strikes a chord with a lot of people!

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  3. Hi Katie! I am glad you provided your blog link. And I am fascinated by people who are spurred onto a deeper study of their faith by those who are of a different faith background. Perhaps it is because I was a cradle Catholic with no real exposure outside...but my mother was always easily swayed from the Catholic faith and not drawn to it by those of other faith backgrounds. I guess she must still be searching or something. Anyway, my own deeper experience of the faith came from within me...my oldest daughter actually! Amazing the different ways God works in/with us.

    I am SO looking forward to our discussions in this book club...what a fantastic group of women!

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  4. I am glad that you're a teacher because I suspect that you have a different sort of insight into the reality of children's lives and the impact of their mothers' choices.

    And I know what you mean about Catholics are age. There are some parishes that have an abundance of young Catholics, but it mostly seems that people leave after confirmation and when they come back for their baby's baptism it is often only to get involved in children's programs.

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  5. Um, I guess that I am glad that you're not too much of a teacher. Sorry for paining you with the spelling/grammar mistakes!

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  6. Hi Katie,
    I know what you mean about feeling alone in your faith - it seems like we are outnumbered doesn't it? It's one more reason I love the web - meeting other Catholic women, and learning from them has been so great for me and I hope it is for you too.

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  7. Katie, welcome!

    Thanks for being part of the club. It's funny you live in Phoenix and are a elementary teacher. My sister-in-law is a kindergarten teacher in Phoenix too! Small world. :)

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